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Certainly, unfortunate women feel humiliated and offended: in fact them suspect of sexual inco ectness or, at least, in aspiration to this inco ectness while they do not think at all of change. Constant prosecution on all field quickly exhausts mentality, and in a year marriageshawaii - two the beginning of a joint life they run into the present depression. The depression of the woman exhausted by suspicions in inco ectness, is unusually artful: it creeps slowly and imperceptibly - in fact marriageshawaii revnivec rolls on the victim gradually, its suspicions are developed week after a week, month after a month. And the victim, running into depression gradually, first, not so distinctly connects the condition with behaviour of the husband, and secondly, forgets about what it was alive, marriageshawaii cheerful and cheerful before has got under a skating rink of suspicions and reproaches. The depression prevents to run away to a victim from the torturer - it does not trust in herself, does not trust, that can live independently, can marriageshawaii provide itself, bring up the child, create new family or even find the constant friend. It believes, that - at its all lacks - this and only this the man loves it, stores to it fidelity, and for it it is necessary to keep , and its marriageshawaii suspicions and reproaches need to be suffered . To whom I such am necessary - My clients, at all forgetting unanimously speak, that several years ago they had a set of applicants for a marriageshawaii hand and heart. Trying to be rescueed from depression and decrease in a self-estimation, the significant part of these women really gets the novel or, at least, short-term (one - double) sexual communication. So much time humiliated them and offended, that they fairly believe, that have the marriageshawaii right to any moral indemnification. In it the main paradox of jealousy also consists: the purpose revnivca is the prevention of potential change, and it, as a rule, reaches absolutely opposite situation. It is impossible to offend the woman unpunishedly - in it arises and the aspiration to self-affirmation amplifies, marriageshawaii and love and sexual communication - the best, and is frequent also simply unique way to raise a self-estimation. The majority of the women who hav ntered in vnesuprujeskuyu communication, even at the big feeling, the minimal remorses test even - the female subculture is involved on fidelity and marriageshawaii fidelity, and to women the ambivalent attitude to inco ectness in general and is peculiar dual as we speak, to own inco ectness - in particular. Me always amazed, that wives revnivcev do not test any feeling of fault: the feeling of insult for infinite suspicions marriageshawaii and humiliations is very strong in them. While the best minds of psychotherapy from the various countries up to a hoarseness (I was the numerous participant of such disputes reaching sometimes up to sharpnesses) argued: what is such - jealousy A neurosis of persistence Special, independent frustration - a paranoia marriageshawaii Paranoyyal'noe frustration within the limits of more serious mental disease - David Lester with group of employees in San Francisco have undertaken formidable research of men from which wives have divorced because of jealousy 3 or more marriageshawaii years before. For cleanliness of research from it have been excluded ethnic latinoamerikancy' and Italians at whom the jealousy can be a part of culture, and anglo-saxons in the ageof from 30 up to marriageshawaii 50, possessing besides by an average special or higher education (i.e. to the American measures well very formed are left only!) . Results of research have amazed the scientific world: the majority of men of studied group have appeared marriageshawaii are repeatedly ma ied and in new families any special suspiciousness to wives did not show. As wives this time (in second time!) They chose such modest women, such ordinary-looking grey my'shek, what even the idea marriageshawaii on an opportunity for such tihoni the novel on the party did not arise. The investigated men were quite uspeshy'mi, attractive and socially adapted so new wives made with them striking contrast. There is an impression, that these men have realized the problem, adapted to it and for marriageshawaii the new union have picked up partnershu which does not provoke in them jealousy. y the way, new wives had no representation that their husbands - revnivcy', that their first families have been destroyed for this reason, and in many cases on court solid monetary indemnifications marriageshawaii have been paid to the first wives. As they were surprised, having learned about the husband such (but, certainly, they learned it not from psychologists).